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Passive Aggression: "I won't get mad...I'll just get even"

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Passive aggression is sugar-coated anger. It is a cover up. A sneak attack. A covert way of getting someone back. Some people turn it into a behavioral art form they become so good at it.   But passive aggression is a no-win power struggle. A no-win means no productivity, and there is usually some form of pain involved. Passive aggressive people satisfy their own anger by pushing another person to publicly displaying anger.   It is nothing more than a coping mechanism.   Displaced anger stemmed from a long time of being directly ignored.   Before you label a colleague, client or partner as passive aggressive and throw your hands up feeding the negativity with more negativity… Try assertive communication. Call a spade a spade. Talk about the elephant in the room, and resist any urge to do this with sarcasm—passive aggression’s evil twin. The reality is that a person who is passive aggressive is not being heard and acknowledge...