"The ______ Trait" -Can you guess what I am?

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I am arguably the main reason when you get knocked down…you will not stay down.
I am elastic.
I have the capacity to help you recover from difficulties.
And once I recover you…
I come back even stronger to support you.
I do not let failure overcome me.
I regulate your emotions.
I exist only to provide you with clarity.
I will not let you quit.
Even after misfortune, I will show you how to soldier on.
I can change the course of your future.
I can show you how to adapt to abrupt changes.
Adversity is something I expect from life, and am unafraid of.
I accept that fear is a part of life, and will help you face your fears.
I will help you build skill to get you through hardships.
Once you make me a part of your life I will not leave you.
I will take the pain out of loss and turn it into motivation to win.
I am your most supportive habit.
My goal is for you to persevere.
I will be your hero if you will be a champion of my cause.
My cause is you.

I am resilience.


 The outside world is full of rejection…the better you are at brushing it off the better off you will be.

Onward…




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