Rise: How To Get Up Inside

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Photo Credit: Stephen Bowler
Lower your tolerance for making excuses. 

 At the very same time...

 In the very same moment...

 Recognize when you are placing blame.

 Work actively and with purpose towards discovering answers to problems. 

 Solutions based thinking leads to productivity, wealth, happiness, success and sales.

 When you place blame you have jumped on the hamster wheel. 

 This does not mean that someone or something is not to blame...

 It just means the activity of “blame” does more damage to your productivity than quitting.

 When we blame our hope is diminished. 

 Instead, just consider whatever happened...

 Something that just happened.

 No, it was not ideal.

 No it was not a happy ending.

 Remind yourself that every beginning starts because something else has ended.

 There is no more work to be done on the past other than learning from it. 

 Do you know anyone who dwelled on a past event...one they can’t undo... and found inspiration in that negative activity?

 Make your inner voice your advocate instead of your adversary.

 Use experiences as lessons and not reasons to put walls up.

 One situation that ended badly does not have to indicate that all future situations will end the same way.

 The reason we feel like we keep experiencing the same old results is because we EXPECT to experience the same result because of the emotional damage from the first bad ending.

 Thoughts become things.

 That which you anticipate.

 That which you dwell on will happen.

 That can be very good or very bad.

 So next time something goes wrong...

 Actively decided to let it go.

 Actively decide you will believe in yourself.

Don’t just get back up physically...

 Get back up on the inside.

 ‪#‎thoughtsbecomethings‬

#strikeamatch

#youcanyouwill




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